
Life’s Anecdotes
By Niki Look
Life is full of experiences some good, and some not so good. I believe that if you look really close you can take something from every situation and grow from it. Life’s Anecdotes will take you through the journey of my life and what I have learned, hope you enjoy and please feel free to share the link with others! ~ Niki~
Have you ever…
Thought about giving your child the finger? I know it sounds silly but let’s be honest! When your unruly teen is standing there toe to toe with you screaming about why life is so rough and she is so stressed out because she has black mascara instead of brown….tell me haven’t you ever had the urge as you are walking away, to just turn and give them the finger?
I know it sounds silly but in today’s society children have lost the need to show adults respect. When I was growing up we showed respect, because if not you wouldn’t be sitting down at dinner for a very long time! During our struggle with teaching today’s youth the importance of treating yourself and others with respect we have led them to believe that they are equals from birth! Although I understand the importance of what we are trying to accomplish here; I do not believe that teaching by instilling fear is productive, there has to be some sort of happy medium.
So you ask what is that “medium”? I really can’t give you the answers because I wish I knew them myself, the only thing I can say is, treat them as you would want to be treated, love them as you would want to be loved and someday it will hopefully come full circle. And if that doesn’t work you can give them the finger in the heat of an argument…but trust me…the reason why I know this doesn’t work is because I actually did it! Oh yes I gave her the finger and it didn’t solve a thing except give me the wisdom to write why NOT to give your child the finger…even if they deserve it!
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